Lessons in Love for Jimmy – University of Michigan Health System News

As an advocate for the patient, it is also important to be assertive in questioning different agencies, schools and the medical team, and Sylvia does this very well, Glynn says.

Morris keeps Jimmy on a regulated schedule, which begins with breakfast at 6:30 a.m. followed by medication at 7:30. By 9 a.m., hes ready for a glass of water and is then dressed for the day.

I lay out his clothes every day and always make sure they match, Morris says proudly.

At 9:45 a.m., Jimmys nurse arrives and meets with Morris to talk about his night and any health-related issues. Together, they clean his tracheotomy and get him ready for his daily jacuzzi bath.

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The large, eight-bedroom home, situated on 11 country acres, has special handicap retrofits, including a bathroom designed by Morris that features a ceiling lift to help get Jimmy in and out of the tub. Over the years, the lift has also been used to help Morris non-ambulatory children stand and walk.

After his bath, Jimmys teeth are brushed and his hair is combed, followed by lunch at noon. Story time is next. Morris reads a variety of books to him, but Harry Potter is a favorite. The day continues with a stretching session to keep his hands and arms flexible. He then rests while listening to his favorite music, which includes lullabies and instrumentals, depending on his mood, says Morris.

In between the daily care and housework, Morris accompanies Jimmy to his many appointments at Michigan Medicine, including doctor visits, rehabilitation and equipment checks.

The dedicated caregivers work seems endless as she looks after Jimmy as well as two other adults with special needs well into the night. Evenings are spent having dinner, praying and listening to a story or music before bed.

The Morris family has also opened their doors to the parents of many foster children, encouraging them to visit and learn how to interact and care for their child. Children need to know their parents, she says.

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