While on a bus a few days ago, I got distracted by a couple talking loudly about their friend. The friend, apparently dealing with early menopause, had decided to begin hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Both questioned the decision. He said the decision to take hormones was unnatural. She said their friend should accept change and let nature do its thing.
While I only heard a short snippet of conversation, the tone was dismissive. Their negative view of the womans decision to go on HRT doesnt surprise me. I witnessed similar conversations during my childhood when a relative decided to do the therapy.
Shes doing it for vanity.
That simply cant be healthy.
Back then, I was clueless about HRT and menopause. I hadnt even gotten my first period. Tiny me was in for a big shock a few years down the line.
Fast-forward to today: I regularly take hormones to suppress my periods. I avoided hormonal support until it became a choice between taking pills and having a life, or giving up control over my body. My decision is one of pain management and mental health. Do I want to live in excruciating pain? Nah. How about some monthly premenstrual dysphoric disorder? Thanks, but no.
Whether hormones are used to manage endometriosis, an imbalance, or a difficult menopause, the choice is personal. Yet, even though hormonal treatments have come a long way, popular opinions about them havent evolved. It reminds me of a doctor who shrugged and told me, Periods are supposed to hurt.
Ive noticed that it tends to bother people when HRT is chosen because of what they perceive as vanity. While approaching menopause, one can experience hair loss, rosacea, weight gain, an increase in body hair, and other aesthetic changes. Are we supposed to happily accept it? If we dont, are we reluctantly fighting the impossible?
Among other things, endometriosis has given me a face full of acne. It is difficult to live with and manage, and it affects my confidence, social skills, and mental health.
In her book Hormonal, Eleanor Morgan says, We reject the notion of putting hormones, the word acquiring a certain dirtiness, into our bodies; as if hormones arent one of the most important parts of what keeps us alive. Perhaps it is the idea of foreign agents; synthetic versions.
Many view hormones as something artificial. Opting to go hormone-free is fine, even though treatments have come a long way and we now have things such as bioidentical hormones. But why is choosing hormonal therapy so socially charged?
Instead of judging someones choice, shouldnt we be curious as to why they choose to do it? Educate ourselves and find out what it is to be them? If we dont know, share, or understand the reasons behind a persons choice, we should refrain from judgment. Because guess what? That persons body is not ours.
Have you ever been judged for choosing what goes into your body? Let me know in the comments below and Ill send you an exhausted yet super sympathetic virtual hug.
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My name is Jessie. I am a writer and part-time Yoga instructor living in the south of England. Since being diagnosed with endometriosis, Im determined to be the boss of my chronic illness. Youll find me with two sausage dogs curled up on my belly and my duvet nearby, writing about life and whatever my mind thinks up. This is my journey.
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