David, 28, was chronically faking his orgasms. His girlfriend hadnt caught on, but David decided to visit a specialist anyway. Was his fakery underhanded? Hardly, says his doctor, Abraham Morgentaler, who runs a pioneering clinic for male sexual dysfunction, Mens Health Boston, and describes Davids predicament in his book Why Men Fake It: The Totally Unexpected Truth About Men and Sex. David, he explains, didnt want his girlfriend to feel sexually inadequate: In that light, his ruse was considerate and kind, writes Morgentaler. This generous refrain men are noble, men just want to please women dominates the book, as Morgentaler bemoans the unrelenting portrayal of dudes as punchlines in pop culture and marketing, scorned by female authors whove proclaimed the end of men. Its a rough era for the male sex, says the author, associate clinical professor of urology at Harvard Medical School. What exactly does a man bring to the party for the modern woman who appears to have everything: career, money, independence, friends? Morgentaler spoke with The Globe from Brookline, Mass. Do you believe that womens gains in equality contribute to sexual dysfunction in men? [Facebook COO] Sheryl Sandberg pointed out that more women than men now graduate … Continue reading →